Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

where do I go to pick up married women?

My answer:

There is many neat places you can go to pick up married women. Malls are the first thing that comes to my mind. Malls are full of all kinds of women, including married.

You can also try those bars that people after work go, they are usually filled with women.

However, the best place where you can EASILY meet married women are salsa dance lesson classes, or dance classes in general. These places have a really great abundance of the kind of women you are looking for. Plus, you get to meet them easy, with much touching involved. I consider this to really be the best place for meeting married women.

You can also try places like nail salons, beauty salons in general, including hair salons.

If you look at things deeper there is actually no difference between direct and indirect game. Even indirect game is direct, the only difference is the time when you express your sexual interest in a woman.

And what is the right approach for you?

Indirect approach is a more of a subtle, under the radar type of approach. Some of the techniques guys use in indirect methods are: opinion openers, storytelling, banter and indifferent body language. Indirect method has some major advantages, and these are:

You don’t convey interest right away, so you don’t appear needy or outcome-dependent. It’s perfect for bars and nightclubs, women there are directly approached al the time. And you by communicating disinterest become very interesting to the girl. Also a woman must qualify yourself to you before you show interest in her and by doing this she becomes the pursuer, not you.

Flexibility of the indirect method is also one it’s great advantages. You can always point the interaction in the way you want it to go. If things are getting sexual fast you can easily transit to a more direct approach. Or if you see the woman you approached as a friend, you won’t mess your friendship by displaying sexual interest right of the bat. And you can always use your female friends as social proof.

Yes I know, indirect method sounds to good to be true. Because it is. But you should keep in mind some of the disadvantages of this type of game:

If you appear to be too nonchalant your girl might thing you don’t like her sexually. And so she will turn off and not see you as potential mate. A woman will never work for your attention if she thinks she is not worthy of it. Also by being indirect it is very difficult to communicate your dominance traits. There is a risk of showing off as insincere and incongruent. For example, your body is showing attraction to a woman and your mind is saying to her that you don’t like her. Be sure to sort out your incongruence.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

What is a good way to pick up an older woman? I am a 21 year old guy. Older women seem to be attracted to me (e.g. 30-35). Besides going to a bar….what would be a good way to sleep with one? I am a virgin. Would that be a turnoff?

My answer:

You really hit me with this one!

I was in the same situation. I lost my virginity at the end of 21. And I love older women.

Now, believe it or not, older women will tolerate a virgin more than women under 25. Older women are more refined, they don’t like to play games, and they are more honest.

I also don’t recommend going to bars to meet them. Not a good place. There is many places where you can automatically meet older women, without even approaching them.

You can sign up for various classes and seminars. For example: yoga, self-improvement seminars, Toastmasters, various spiritual classes,  cooking lessons, dancing lessons. These places that I mention are packed with older women.

Now, when meeting them, focus on being mature and sincere. That’s what they appreciate most. If you can manage to sleep with an older women, that’s awesome, it’s going to give you great confidence and experience.

If you feel that your virginity is somehow a blockage to sleeping with a women, it’s okay, I felt the same way before. The most important thing that you should now do is to lose your virginity AS FAST AS POSSIBLE ANY WAY YOU CAN. Believe me, being a virgin will lose you years of experience with women. You are not even aware of how much opportunities with women you have lost because of this strong inner blockage.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

whats the best way to pick up older women?

My answer:

The best way to pick up an older women is not act like you are picking up a younger woman.

Let me explain the slight difference. Older women are much more refined and experienced in life. They usually don’t care about little games that younger women like to play. Also, they really want a mature man, even if he is younger. It’s most important to be honest and mature with older women, while still being a bit playful.

So, when approaching an older woman, strive to be confident and sincere, and approach her in a direct way if possible. You can approach her with a direct line that says you find her attractive.

It’s that simple.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

I’ve never been with an Asian woman before, they are no where near as easy to pick up as white girls, what am? I doing wrong, any advice?

the only one’s harder to pick up than Asians is black girls, I gave up on them a LOOONG time ago, lol, they are really really picky, but white girls I have no trouble with them, they are in love with my skin color, and a certain stereotype that goes alooooooong with it, lol

So what can I do to make myself more attractive to Asian women, white girls just ain’t doin’ it for me no more, I just get the feeling that they love BLACK MEN in general and that stereotype(you know which one I’m refering to, lol) MORE than they love this individual black man, I need someone who can look past my race and love me for who I AM and not just see me as a walking, talking, sex machine, are ya’ll feelin’ me!
BTW, I feel feel that I’m being sent back to the plantation with these white girls, I’m really tired of being used as nothing more than a vessel to satisfy someones own lustful desires, I’m fed up with it!

My answer:

Well, many white men claim that it’s really easy for them to get with Asian women.

First of all, focus more on the Asian women that were born here, instead of recent immigrants. Recent immigrant women might be more racist toward black men (if not them, then their families).

When I think of it, you rarely see a black man and Asian woman. You just need to act more like a white man. Think of what Asian women like about white men and act accordingly. This is just a suggestion. I really feel that race doesn’t matter in these issues much. If you get her to be attracted to you, she won’t care that you’re a different race.

It’s mostly cultural programming. It’s not common to see black men with Asian girls as much as it’s not common to see white men with black women.

Many guys make the critical mistake and always approach women during the night at nightclubs and bars. They never approach during the day. That’s very sad. At daytime girls are much more open and authentic. A cold bitch in the evening can be a sweet next door girl during the day. The conversation between you and the girl will be much more natural and genuine, actually there are many benefits of day approaching. I don’t understand how guys don’t get this.

Also there is one logistic matter, you can meet women during the day for the whole day. You can pick up a girl on your to work, you don’t have to go to a special place with loud music, drunk people and expensive drinks. If you have decided that you would like to try some daytime approaches read on to get some advice:

Approach on sight

When you see a girl approach her. Don’t get cold feet and walk around thinking what to say. Nobody knows what to say, just say something, anything. You could have a line or two prepared but that is not so necessary. If you have something prepared that will may give you an extra point of confidence, so prepare something if you think you will need it.

Watch your body language

When you actually approach start paying attention on your body language. You don’t want to look to eager to meet the girl. Keep your body language looking like that you are not very interested. Great thing is that when you do that you show mixed signals. On the verbal level you approach her, and on the nonverbal level you are uninterested. By doing this you look mysterious, and what girl doesn’t love a mysterious stranger.

I  don’t want to overwhelm you with information, this is more than enough to get you started. Have fun approaching!

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

what kind of car can a man buy so he can impress and pick up beautiful women for dates and romantic times?

My answer:

Dude, you are asking all the wrong questions. It seems to me that you are somewhat insecure and unsuccessful with women. Otherwise, why would you be asking that?

Yes, most men think like you too. But, most men are not successful with women either. You probably know man that are naturally successful with women. Do they need cars and fancy clothes to get hot women? No, of course they don’t. They use their personality. In fact, often, these guys tend to be poor social outcasts. Think of crazy rockers who drop out of high school, bad boys with a criminal record, etc.

Improve yourself, not your car. You don’t have to impress women. I know it sounds maybe new to you, but trying to impress women will only make them run from you.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

Singles and Dating: Men, Why is it a Bad idea to Pick up Women at Bars..? Q#2: any bad experiences you wish to share as an example?

Thanks all for answering

My answer:

Yes, it’s definitely not a good idea. It makes men work too much for the attention of women. First of all, there is the over-crowding issue. Then there is the issue of loudness. Usually, it is too loud at bars. You have to scream in someones ear.

Plus, women have way too much power in clubs. Most women come there to show off and get an ego boost from all the attention. Men have way too much competition. Women are on their guard because of this and they are ready to reject most men at the start already. I have had many bad experiences in bars.

I have talked to women for 15 minutes for example, and then she went to the bathroom and never came back. The majority of nights of meeting women at bars were a disaster. It wasted too much time and involved too much effort.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

Any good pick-up lines to tell women? I was wondering if anyone knew any good pick-up lines for women. Not to cheesy please.

My answer:

Of course I am not going to give you the cheesy ones. I am going to tell you that pickup lines are only 10% (at most) of the equation.

It is important that you come up to a woman confidently, looking her straight in the eyes. No fidgeting, no nervous ticks, no nervous smiling. Only a nice confident smile. It is also very important to talk loud enough and to talk slooowly. Don’t rush anything.

Now that you have gotten the basics, we come to the line. It is best to be direct and sincere to women. Why is it best? Because it’s the hardest. Anyone can come up to her with a persona and make a fool out of themselves.

Well, you have to risk a rejection to your authentic you. The line might go something like “Hey, I just noticed how beautiful you were, and I just came over to meet you.”

That’s it. Very simple.