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Approaching Women 101

Are you interested in learning all about approaching women? Do you want all my best secrets on approaching women? Well, you're luck in my friend, as I have finally decided to unveil and unleash all my secrets on one place. You see, I've spent a decade learnings all about approaching women. I have read about, tried and mastered every single method and strategy in approaching women. Most of the stuff I learned was crap. Most of the stuff you see online is crap.

I've taken a whole decade to separate the good stuff from the bad stuff. What really works from what is just hype. You see, my favorite rule in life is the 90/10 rule. It states that 10% of the actions you take give 90% of the results. Therefore, I've taken the time to compile both the 
quiz on approaching women., and this one page guide here. Don't understimate this one page. Again, this page packs in things that I needed a decade to learn.This one page packs in everything you need to know about approaching women... So read on!

You are unique

You will find all kinds of theories and strategies online about approaching women. A lot of them are dogmatic, they try to force their method of approaching women on you as the only right way. Let me tell you what, there is no one universal way that works for everyone. You are a unique individual, what works for super-mega-guru doesn't work for you. What will get you results, will not get him the same results. The secret is finding a way of approaching women that deals with the numbers issue.

The numbers issue!?

You might be wondering what this "numbers issue" is, and no its not about telephone numbers. You see, I have something shocking to reveal to you. Again, this is based on having personally met and worked with the best playas, casanovas and lotharios in the world. Yes, I've even hung out with some of the best paid "pick up gurus" in the world. I've seen it all first hand. There is one rule that no man has been able to break. Even the best of the best of the best in the world can only get one in 50 random women. And this for the best of the best of the best in the world. Guys who make millions teaching this stuff.

Now note, this is random women. For example if you see a random girl in a club or the street and try to pick her up. The numbers are much better if the girl invites you, flirts with you first or if its through a social circle. The point stands, you will not get most women you approach. There is nothing you can learn about approaching women that will allow you to get every woman you desire. The sooner you accept this, the easier your life will be. You can spend years (like me) trying every method, expert on the planet or you can accept this right now and save a ton of time.

So how does this relate to approaching?

The way this relates to approaching is realizing you will never get any woman that you desire. If you want to make approaching women extremely easy, you want to realize there is no way to get any woman you approach. If you accept the fact that most approaches will not end up in either a girlfriend or sex, you will be able to master approaching easier.

Why? Because here's the killer secret!

The number one thing that makes approaches fail (get you snubbed, rejected, negative reactions) is approaching with a goal of getting or picking up this woman. Every single man on the planet who has 100% succesful approaches, where all women respond well - has one thing in common. They all approach in a way that's not sexually forward. They all approach in a way where they're not hitting on the woman.

Pick up artists have all kinds of techniques to seem like they're not impressed with her looks and make her qualify. Natural casanovas are genuinelly unimpressed and just socializing. The point is, you want to do this too.

The number one easiest way to approach women

Make it your goal to just "socialize" or flirt". Have no other outcome or goal except to start a conversation with this woman. This is your only goal. Remember, you need to convince yourself that you're having so much sex and so many women that you don't care what this one woman does. Your only goal is a great conversation. If it turns into something more, than just a nice bonus.

The really cool thing about this attitude is that you actually get laid more this way! When you do not try to get in her pants and are indifferent about it, you will find women will try to get into yours. They will try to make you pick them up. They will literally beg for it.

Doesn't help you so far?

So you read this whole article, but still don't know where to start? Well, you've probably not taking my
approaching women quiz. You see, you need to find a systematic way to get started in approaching women. You basically organize a system so that you step by step build yourself up to where you can approach any woman, anywhere. Its that easy and simple.




From the category archives:

lines to pick up women

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question:

Any good pick-up lines to tell women? I was wondering if anyone knew any good pick-up lines for women. Not to cheesy please.

My answer:

Of course I am not going to give you the cheesy ones. I am going to tell you that pickup lines are only 10% (at most) of the equation.

It is important that you come up to a woman confidently, looking her straight in the eyes. No fidgeting, no nervous ticks, no nervous smiling. Only a nice confident smile. It is also very important to talk loud enough and to talk slooowly. Don’t rush anything.

Now that you have gotten the basics, we come to the line. It is best to be direct and sincere to women. Why is it best? Because it’s the hardest. Anyone can come up to her with a persona and make a fool out of themselves.

Well, you have to risk a rejection to your authentic you. The line might go something like “Hey, I just noticed how beautiful you were, and I just came over to meet you.”

That’s it. Very simple.

But really dude there's no reason you should be confused about any of this. If you haven't taken the quiz to see how you stack up with women yet... Click here and see what your results are on the personal dating quiz.

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