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Do women mind this?
It seems a bit intrusive to stop someone in their tracks and try to start a conversation with them.
Women: What are your usual responses? What has worked with you?
Do you blank them, give false number, say you already have a boyfriend etc..
What is there too talk about / spark up a conversation with?
When there is nothing interesting going on around and you obviously dont know anything about them.
Lets use the bus top for example
Me: Do you have the time?
Her: (Time)
Me: ty
then what? doesnt seem a way to carry it on further.
How do you beat the nerves of approaching someone?
Everytime i have thought about it i make excuses in my head not to then its too late they have left. I dont have much confidence and the thought of it scares me as it is, anything to ease that?
Seems the only way to go about getting a girlfriend is doing this, im not a kid anymore so i dont join groups/clubs for hobbies and online dating is a joke.
I dont drink alcohol either so pubs and clubs are out the question.
Ive read all this PUA (Pick up artist) stuff on approaching women and its a load of cobblers tbh that invovles magic tricks and pretending to be an alpha male.
Any help?

My quick answer to this question:

THIS ANSWER WILL PUT A LOT OF YOUR PERSONAL POWER AND RESPONSIBILITY BACK INTO YOUR HANDS. READ AT YOUR OWN RISK.

“Do women mind this?”

No. Of course they don’t. Actually they love it, they adore it. Every time you approach a woman you validate her as a woman, as a valuable member of her species. Actually by approaching a woman you are giving a huge gift, a gift of your masculine validation.  And as we know women love validation, in the end who does not? Even the woman who has rejected you in the cruelest manner is walking off with a happy grin on her face. Although she will never admit it to you. Women love guys approaching them, but they will never openly say it because of theirs woman ego/pride issues.

Well.. since you are a man and your primary hormone is telling you all the time “Impregnate everything that walks and has boobs, VERY FAST” you don’t have the luxury of ego, and you don’t have the luxury of pride, and you don’t have the luxury of excuse. Sorry. Now you officially have no more reasons to not approach a girl.

“It seems a bit intrusive to stop someone in their tracks and try to start a conversation with them.”

It seems a bit intrusive… hmmmm… why it seems like that? Maybe BECAUSE IT IS? Of course it is intrusive, and not a bit, A LOT. That’s one of the reasons women love it. Women adore an intrusive man. Do you know why?

On a deep level, what is the essence of intrusion? Let me tell you, the essence of intrusion is PENETRATION. A who loves being penetrated..? Hmmm… women maybe? By approaching her your are PENETRATING HER?

And by approaching you have laid the foundations of an even deeper penetration.

Must I go into this deeper?

But watch it, when you approach you don’t penetrate like a jackass or a woman will close down. Do you see the striking resemblance with sex here?

You penetrate her GENTLY.. at first. Do you see the striking resemblance with sex here #2?

This is one example of  intrusive/penetrable yet gentle approach. Walk up to a woman and just say “Hi I saw you, and you are absolutely beautiful..” Then STFU a little, then introduce yourself.

“What is there too talk about / spark up a conversation with?”

Nothing. Do you spark up a conversation with her during sex. No. You STFU and listen her moaning. Same here, only you listen her talking. Ask usual plain dumb questions. Name, job, family, hobbies, favorite movie/diner/music..

Yes, it’s that simple. Just remember this one little thing, everything about women is about SEX, or in very close relation to it. Don’t let them fool you.
Great, now you have no excuse for sitting in front of the PC.

Go!

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