Clubs and bars are definitely ono of the hardest places to pick up women. But the payoff is great – you get instant sex.. if you know how. If you don’t know how you get makeouts and a numbers and sometimes only a flaky number. You must compete with all kinds of things in these environments – you are working against club loudness and the general hype of going out.
But as we know any regular guy who wants to pick up chicks firstly goes to a club. And because of that the odds are not in your favor, every other guy is the club because of the same thing – to get laid. But there lies the challenge, why should you pick up the low hanging fruit of social circle girls when you can work your ass of in a club and get the same result. Social circle girls offer no challenge, they want you already. Real men go to clubs to pick up women they don’t know.
I have some tips that will help the rare real men out there in their efforts. In fact, there are really three main things you need to do when you hit the clubs, if you’re looking to score. I assure you, these are more than filler, and are in fact the secret behind me getting laid so often.
1. Travel light
When you go in a club please don’t go with a pack of six dicks. You are definitely giving your self low status if you go to a club surrounded by seven creepy guys. The worst thing is that many of your so called friends will try to sabotage your efforts with women in any way they can. When you try to approach women, they will give you excuses not to. If you try to leave with a chick you just met, they’ll get angry and say you can’t leave with her. If you want results from bars and clubs then go out only with ONE friend who has high-status. A group of cool guys is ok, but they have to be extremely cool. The kind of a group of guys, that when you’re out with them, women approach your group.
2. Be a high status individual
Women are biologically attracted to men who have high status. Wherever you go behave as you own the place, women will automatically pick up this and as a result they will like you much more than normal dude. When you are in a club just relax and feel like the manager, act like you own the place. This works so powerfully that even the very first time you try it out, you will be amazed by the results. Women all over the club will stare at you and try to get your attention. A few will even come dance next to you, and some will even approach you first.
3. Mingle
I know it sounds super ironic, but focusing on picking up women will ensure you do not. In fact, this is what creepiness really is. What women mean by the term is a guy who just sees her as a piece of meat before he’s even said hello. Women can tell, and it creeps them out. This is why you want to make it your goal to just mingle and socialize. Introduce yourself and talk to every group in the place, and keep it casual and subtle. Only if and when the women start flirting, do you flirt back, but never before. If you’re a half-decent guy, you can’t go without at least a few chicks hitting on you in any given night. Of course, I’m assuming you introduce yourself to them first.
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