So here you are… another day… spent a lone. Maybe you’ll watch a little porn, maybe you’ll take a walk with a friend and then call it a day. But no girl to hug or whose warm lips you get to feel tonight. Take the “lips” in this sentence any way you desire 
If this is you, then you have yet to learn how to pick up women. I’m here to show you how to pick up women, easily, effortlessly and consistently! You see I’ve spent many years learning this subject, and today I can teach it!
Secret Number 1: She wants you just as much as you want her!
We have an unprecedented number of people watching reruns home a lone. You know what the sad part is? Its all due to miss-communication. As you’re sitting there, alone at home, you think the women don’t want what you want. You couldn’t be more wrong! They’re also sitting home alone, wondering what’s wrong with them. Yes, even most of those cute girls you see, that look like they don’t want to be bothered… Guess what?
She goes home alone, wondering “what’s wrong with me? why do I always come back from the club alone?”. At this you might be completely shocked, as you thought women can get laid any time they want to, right? You couldn’t be more wrong!
Exercise Number 1: See what women think
Go to a woman’s forum, and find all those topics by women complaining how they’re alone, and how they can’t get laid. Yes, actually hot women writing pages and pages about how they come back home alone from the parties.
What you will find out, is that most of them are completely mislead! When they go out there, and see a guy they want to be approached by… When he doesn’t approach them, they actually think its her fault! Like she doesn’t even know that you are just as afraid and insecure as she is!!! If you don’t approach her, she assumes its her fault! And it kinda is, because she’s too insecure to show signs that she wants you to pick her up!
Guess what? All those time you talked to some woman, and she acted weird or cold? Most of the time she was just insecure and didn’t know how to respond! She wasn’t arrogant… She just didn’t know how to deal with the pick up!
Exercise Number 2: See what kinda men these women like
When you see all these women complaining that they can’t pick up a man, your first instinct will be to imagine they must all look like male models. They must be worried about not being picked up by Brad Pitt? WRONG AGAIN. Your very next exercise is to actually look at pics and galleries that female bloggers keep of guys they find hot and get horny about. Trust me, this will be shocking to you. You will be like “wait, what!?”. Most guys will be just normal looking, everyday guys. I mean sure, most are at least in an acceptable weight range (some are even chubby)… But as far as you know facial features, they’re just regular joes!
Secret Number 2: Its about working around their insecurities
If you hang around women’s forums and magazines enough, you’ll learn the secrets. They’re scared of flirting. They’re scared of showing interest. Most of them actually have a fear of flirting first with a guy… I mean…
- When the wrong guy approaches her, she’s irritated and annoyed… and feels like she could signals to the guy she wants
- When she sees the right guy (and again, its just some random average dude), she feels torn and paralyzed about showing interest… She can’t flirt with him, she can’t even smile at him, or approach him first! She can just for example go dressed slutty so guys approach her, and pray that ONE of them will be the guy she wanted!
So how do you work around this?
Realizing that she has fears of her own, you want to help her. You know that in every club or party you go to, there’s at least 2-3 cute girls who’d love to pick you up. But they can’t. Society doesn’t let her show interest, flirt or do anything to let you know.
What works, but I don’t recommend: Some guys just go and hit on, ask out, and persist on every cute girl in the place, until the girl rejects him, or says yes. What has he done with this strategy? He’s simply stumbled onto the one who was into him all along, simply by luck/randomness.
What works, and I prefer: Create a system where you can let the women who are interested tell you and show you that they are! What I tend to do these days, is that I will go into a place and make it my mission to be friendly and socialize with everyone. I will be extremely open, nonthreatening and non-judgemental. I will walk around the place… introduce myself to everyone (in a completely asexual, and social manner).
What happens by the end of the night is that girls who were interested… Now have the courage to do their part. They no longer feel like a slut to flirt with me, because I approached them first! And since I didn’t approach them with a sexual undertone or by hitting on them… They felt ok to socialize and be open with me. This is key… If you hit-on-them, they will get defensive (many will), even if they like you! Their fear is being perceived as too easy or a slut.
So rather just approach everyone asexually, and by the end of the night, the girls who are interested, they will give you the “come pick this girl up” signal. And you’re good to go. Trust me on this.
THE TRUTH
You can’t make a woman want you. You’re in her “yes”, “no” or “maybe” category before you’ve said a word. Even the best-paid millionaire “pick up experts” can only pick up ONE IN FIFTY random women they walk up to. So don’t hit on random women. Do talk to random women, socialize with random women, but save your energy for the women who say “yes” or “maybe” and your life will be awesome!
